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Monday, 15 November 2010

Carrot Cake


You guys, my husband made this cake. Homemade icing and all. It's carrot cake by the way. It was delicious. I love cream cheese icing.

We're new in marriage. It's been a year and nine months. So it's still new. And we're learning about each other and ourselves with each other. To work as a team. It's really easier said than done. But I guess, it's also not very hard. Not when it matters. And this (us) matters.
So sometimes we take each other for granted and pick stupid fights. My favorite fight to date is the one about G using the good bread. This was back when we were newly-married-poor. I was freaking out about not having a job. G was making a SANDWICH with our FANCY bread. Fancy bread (this was actually very basic bread not that fancy) costs more money. Yes, I yelled at him about it. It was a beyond stupid fight and we laugh about it all the time now.
So sometimes there's that. And other factors too. Jobs, school, friends, family. Other factors that can be both joyous and toxic. And we forgot that working as a team makes all of the joy better and all of the bad parts conquerable.

I'm just writing to say that I'm grateful for my husband. He's nice and funny. He's understanding and motivated. He has sparkly blue eyes and is always warm. And he bakes me carrot cake in the middle of the day.

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